I wrote this article for my other blog, Searching for the Happiness. I am sharing it on this blog because the advice is really quite universal. When you feel that you have pushed yourself as far as you can go, remember the advice below. :)
Have you ever had a moment where you feel like you are at a crossroad and somehow the right words fall into your lap? I tend to be the type of person who works hard towards a goal, see progress, then see a lack of any more forward movement and take that opportunity to stop, regroup and reflect. I have found that if I quiet my mind and pay attention to what is around me, the answers or at least the right motivational words tend to appear.
This last few months have been quite a whirlwind of activity. My busy schedule has suddenly lifted and I am left with that feeling of what should I do next? I have begun to cherish these moments since I have learned how to make the most of them. Downtime is a time to refresh your mind and create some new ways to go after your goals.
I tend to take time to organize the house and organize my work files. I will do some reading and research to center myself again towards what I want to achieve. I find that if I can’t see clutter around me, and if my mind is clear and focused, I can get back on track and make some more progress towards what I am focused on.
I happened to read an article that talked about how to look at failure. Personally, I found the idea of looking at failure as something not to dread, but instead to celebrate as fascinating.
Everyone has had goals they have faced where you worked hard, picked up steam and then just sort of hit a plateau. You no longer saw any more movement towards your goal. What you had been working so hard at became stagnant. This is the moment where many people give up. They don’t know what else they can do. Since they seem to be suddenly at the peak of their abilities, they quit. They are bored and no longer inspired to continue to work at something that seems to have gone as far as it could possibly go. Sound familiar?
This is the moment that you should be feeling goosebumps of excitement not disappointment and failure. When you reach that point where you feel like you have gone the distance, you are truly on the brink of a major event. If you have patience and faith in yourself, the world will open up with some amazing possibilities. You will eventually reach your goal if you just stick with it.
I have read so many stories of people on the brink of quitting and the amazing turnaround that happened to them. They couldn’t see what was in store for them, but were so grateful that they stuck it out a bit longer.
The best story of this phenomenon that I read recently was of Gabby Douglas, the olympic gymnast. She had been away from her family for a year training with a host family. She was bored and homesick. She called her mom asking to come home. She figured she would get a job at the local fast food joint and train as a runner. Her mom and the host family were able to convince her to stick with gymnastics. They supported her and got her back on track. She ended up with incredible success at the olympic games (to say the least). Who would have guessed she almost blew such an incredible achievement?
So, here I am in the midst of pushing on towards my goals. As I have taken a moment to reflect on where I have been and where I am heading, I keep finding these articles full of inspiring tales that have motivated me to stay focused and on track. I hope that these tidbits of wisdom help you as well to accomplish all that you are aiming for in your own life.
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